Why We Should Stop Saying “Bridal Party”
How Sydney couples are embracing inclusive wedding language for a more welcoming and authentic celebration.
Language shapes the way we see the world — and the wedding industry is no exception. One of the most common (and outdated) phrases still used today is “bridal party.” While it might sound harmless, it unintentionally leaves out a lot of people who don’t identify with traditional gender roles or the concept of a “bride.”
It’s time we update our language to reflect the love and inclusivity we celebrate.
The Problem With the phrase “Bridal Party”
The term “bridal party” centers around the bride — suggesting that weddings are female-led occasions and everyone else revolves around her. But in 2025, we know love isn’t gendered.
Whether your wedding involves two grooms, two brides, or a couple that doesn’t identify with either label, “bridal party” can feel outdated and exclusionary.
That means:
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It excludes grooms, nonbinary partners, and queer couples.
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It assumes every wedding has (and should have) a bride.
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It reinforces a gendered, traditional model of what a wedding “should” look like.
In modern weddings, love doesn’t fit one mold — and neither should our words.
Language Shapes Experience
Words matter. When we use gendered or exclusive terms, we subtly reinforce who “belongs” and who doesn’t. For example, using common terms like “Bridal Party” or “Bridal Suite” can unintentionally isolate queer and gender diverse communities. Inclusive wedding language, on the other hand, makes space for all couples to feel seen. It welcomes everyone to participate authentically — without feeling like they’re stepping into a tradition that doesn’t reflect them.
Why Inclusive Language Matters
Inclusive language is more than political correctness — it’s about respect, belonging, and representation.
When couples and vendors choose words that acknowledge all identities, it sends a powerful message: Everyone’s love story deserves to be seen.
It’s especially important because:
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Language creates atmosphere — when words are inclusive, everyone feels comfortable.
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It reflects your values as a couple and as a brand (for vendors and creatives).
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It invites your guests, regardless of gender, orientation, or identity, to feel welcome and celebrated.
Inclusive weddings are about making the day yours. Learn more about how couples are rethinking wedding traditions in our Wedding Myths blog post.”
What To Say Instead of “Bridal Party”
If “bridal party” doesn’t fit every couple, what does? Here are a few alternatives that work beautifully across all kinds of weddings — from queer and nontraditional celebrations to those who just want a modern twist.
Gender-Neutral & Inclusive Alternatives
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Wedding party – The most straightforward and widely used inclusive term.
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Crew or Support crew – Fun, modern, and friendly.
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Wedding crew – Keeps the tone casual but celebratory.
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I do crew – Playful and lighthearted.
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Friends of honour – warm and inclusive
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Chosen family – heartfelt and human
- Best Humans – also heartfelt
Role-Specific Alternatives
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Person of honour (instead of maid/man of honour)
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Attendant (instead of bridesmaid or groomsman)
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Best person (instead of best man)
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Wedding party member (neutral catch-all term)
Using neutral language not only reflects the diversity of modern love stories, but also helps guests and vendors feel respected and seen.
The best part? You get to define your own language. It’s your day, your people, your vibe — so choose words that feel right for you.
Why Inclusive Wedding Language Matters
Inclusive wedding language goes beyond just one phrase — it’s about creating a space where everyone feels valued.
From your invitations to your vows, using language that speaks to you and your people makes the day more authentic.
Reflecting Who You Truly Are
Your wedding should sound like you, not a template from tradition. The more intentional your words are, the more your wedding will reflect your personalities, values, and love story.
How Sydney Couples Are Leading the Change
More Sydney couples are embracing inclusive wedding practices — from mixed-gender wedding parties to dual first looks and shared aisle walks. It’s a small but powerful shift that makes modern weddings more meaningful, grounded, and real.
More Sydney couples are rethinking traditions: mixed-gender wedding parties, shared aisle walks, and neutral role titles are becoming standard. Choosing inclusive language isn’t just polite — it makes your wedding feel authentic.
Inspired to plan your own inclusive wedding? Get in touch with us today and let’s capture your Sydney wedding the way you want it.
Resources on Inclusive Wedding Language
For couples and vendors who want to dive deeper:
How to Encourage Inclusive Language in the Wedding Industry
As creatives, photographers, planners, and venues, we can help normalize inclusive terminology by making small but meaningful changes:
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Use “couple” instead of “bride and groom” in all materials.
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Ask clients what titles and pronouns they prefer.
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Update website copy, contracts, and social captions to reflect gender neutrality.
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Share inclusive examples in blogs and social media to set the tone for others.
These shifts show that love — in all its forms — belongs in your work. And that’s the kind of message worth celebrating.
Final Thoughts: Love Is the Focus
Language evolves, and so do weddings. The goal isn’t to erase tradition — it’s to make space for everyone who loves differently, celebrates uniquely, and shows up as themselves.
When you use inclusive wedding language, it’s not about following a trend or being “politically correct” — it’s about being kind. And that’s what every wedding day should be built on.
Your wedding day should reflect your love story, not outdated traditions. Using inclusive wedding language ensures that everyone feels represented, welcome, and celebrated — making your day as authentic as your relationship.
If you’re planning a wedding that reflects your true story, we’d love to capture it. See how we celebrate real, inclusive love stories as your Sydney wedding photographer.
